Family Traditions

Family Traditions

Creating Unique Traditions: Our Torchlight New Year’s Ski

“Click, Click, Click.”  Ski bindings lock in boots as people without poles load the last chair of the night and year at Schweitzer Mountain Resort in Sandpoint, Idaho.

This year two 10 year olds accompany the expedition, nervous but anticipating the experience they’ve waited so long to have.

“The kids have to be old enough to carry the flares, and good enough skiers to not require help,”  Boppa had said when he started the tradition on the eve of the Millennium in 2000.

Thus, age 10 became the minimum age, and it now signifies a certain rite of passage.

Crisp air paints cheeks rosy as the crew recounts the tradition riding up the chair in the stillness of the night – who came what year, who couldn’t handle the steep climb, the current newcomers.  The ski patrol awaits our arrival.

“We’ve been expecting you,” they say, and warn us of the cat groomers as they do every year.  Binding click again, but this time in reverse.

The group begins the trek up the ridge, carrying their skis on their shoulders.  The noisy chatter quickly dissipates as the angle of the hill steepens, and breathing becomes deep and steady.  Breathless “You can do its,” and “Good Jobs” interrupt the pounding of the heart in each chest.  Kick, step, kick, step, we make our way, following the divets in the mountain of the person who went before us.  The 10 year olds inevitably beat most up the mountain.  Young legs pay off.

 

At the top there are fireworks, high fives, and hot chocolate waiting.

I love the bonding that happens between parent-child, cousin-cousin, friend-friend.  The experience ties heart strings to one another.

We light the flares…

and head down, following each other in an “S” fashion.

What is so appealing about this experience?

 It has 4 elements that  can create a special, unique tradition:

1. The element of challenge – something must be overcome.

2. The element of fellowship – people are embarking on an experience together.

3. The element of fun – those involved enjoy what they are doing, even if parts are difficult.

4. The element of originality – not everyone does this.  In fact, it makes us unique that we do.

Ours may not sound like a “fun” experience to many of you, but to us, it’s one of the greatest highlights of our year.  When we yell “HAPPY NEW YEAR” and wave our flares as we fly down the mountain all aglow, we feel ALIVE and CONNECTED.  To me, there is no greater way to ring in a new beginning.

How about you?  What unique traditions have you heard of or started? What ideas do you have for your family or friends?  I’d love to know! 

And P.S… our tradition has an open invitation.  So if you ever get the hankerin’ to climb a ski ridge in Idaho on Dec.31st, we would love to have you!

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APPLE DAY!!

 Apple Day has been a long standing tradition in our house.  This picture makes me want to cry because it is from a couple of years ago, and I just cannot stand how fast they are growing up!  It makes me realize how special this day is in creating all of the warm feelings of fall — the smell of apples cooking, a pumpkin spice candle burning, Vivaldi playing in the background (my favorite canning music for some reason), happy noises coming from the kids working together, and the familiar “pop” of canning lids sealing.  It truly is a day that makes me HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY.  It’s all that good in life!

Apple Day begins here:
 We are fortunate enough to live close to one of the most beautiful orchard areas in the Northwest:  Greenbluff.  Hansen’s Orchard is owned by family friends, and we think they have the absolute BEST apples & cider on the Bluff!

We try to time it so that we process the apples in the same week they are picked.  I learned this the hard way some years back.  The apples are much harder to work with after they have softened up even a little bit.  

 Here’s why.  This fantastic gadget peels, cores, and slices the apples.  If they are hard, it is a snap.  If they are soft…. it turns to a mushy, mashy mess.

                                                     

 We make chunky applesauce.
 Dried Apples.

 And the very favorite:  APPLESAUCE
 

 OK — this is a close favorite runner-up:  APPLE CRISP.

 I couldn’t resist putting in this picture from Apple Day last year.  So much love going around — warms a mama’s heart it does!!
 Ohhhh ya — this one too: APPLE PIES

It’s a lot, I know, and make no mistake — we are exhausted by the end of the day, but it’s that good kind of exhausted.  The kind that lets the heart and body know that it has been a day well spent.  Those are the best kind!

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The Hidden Cupcake

We are big on birthdays around here, and The Hidden Cupcake is one of our favorite traditions! Here is how it works…In the morning, we put the cupcake next to the birthday person’s plate. Sometime during the day, the cupcake disappears and is hidden somewhere in the house. At present time, the birthday guy or gal gets to hunt around for the cupcake, which is now housing inside of it a fun gift.

There are countless ideas of what can be put inside. You could even hide it with a big present waiting in the garage!
Celebrating in creative ways is a great way to show others how much we love them. Whether you buy a cupcake, make one at a paint your own pottery place, or use some other wacky container you have around the house, it’s a fun idea that adults as well as kids love!
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More Gifts from the Heart: Fun Ideas

I love creativity, and when it comes to gifts, I have been SO blessed to be on the receiving end of these great ideas! A little creativity and thoughtfulness goes a LONG way!

1. Roses:
A. This year, 3 of my dearest friends who live far away, gave my sister money to buy a bouquet or roses. There was a letter that came with the bouquet explaining that each friend had picked a special rose bush that is to be sent in the spring. My dear friends each described why she had picked that particular color/bush for me. I will think of them whenever I pass my garden and cut a rose — what a lasting and thoughtful gift! They put a beautiful quote at the top of the letter:
“People need what plants need…..Someone to tend the soil around them, give them some extra attention, pull the weeds that threaten to choke them, pour on the sunshine and the life-giving water, sprinkle in nourishing words – like plant food and fertilizer – and wait. The “repair shop” mentality won’t do because we are made for life in a garden.”
Jonathan Wilson-Hartgrove
B. One year, my sister had 12 of my friends each deliver a rose to my house on my birthday with a special card. By the end of the day, I had a dozen roses, and felt very loved!
2. The Quilt.
Anyone who has ever attempted a quilt can appreciate the love and TIME that went into creating this! My friend had several people take one fruit of the Spirit each from Galatians 5:22 and write about the various words. She then put them all together in a quilt. There is even a flap and a ribbon to cover them up. Isn’t my friend just amazing? !

3. The Album
This particular friend has made me 2 albums and I treasure them both. She weaves pictures in with writing. She even put my 2011 motto on the front! In this album, she put an acrostic, some Bible verses, quotes, and letters to me. So much time went into this — an act of loyal friendship and love!

4. The Recipe Cards
I love recipes, especially from people I care about. Whenever I’m making a recipe from someone I know, I pray for that person while I’m making their recipe. When we moved from Utah back to the Northwest, some of my friends gave this as my going away gift. They had various people write one of their favorite recipes on a recipe card. Then, on the back, the people wrote a little note, their birthdays, things I could pray for, etc. They were all compiled in a box. I love looking at these cards…. and the recipes are fabulous!
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Gifts of the Heart for any Occasion

A few years back, the siblings on my side of the family decided to move to homemade gifts for Christmas. There were no stipulations, it just had to be “homemade” in some way. The first year, my sister & brother-in-law cut wood from the 100 year old cottonwoods where we grew up and made them into candle holders. My brother and sister-in-law wrote a fantastic poem (you have to know my bro — he’s Steve Martin kind of witty). Erik and I made homemade vanilla and some other homemade goodies. We were hooked. It was so much fun that the gifts were from the heart of people we love. It is also interesting that those are the gifts we remember! I can tell you years later what they have given me. This year my sibs hit the ball out of the park. I love their gifts so much! I thought I’d share them since I think they’d make great, meaningful gifts for any occassion…..

GIFT #1: KENDRA & ERIC: A FAMILY LEGACY


My sister created an album that chronicles the history of our family. She includes our grandparents family pictures, weddings, children, and any other significant information about them.



I love these old pictures of my grandmother’s parents and siblings. My great aunts were some of the dearest people of my childhood. I find my children reading this book over and over. They love knowing where they come from. I really believe this helps give them deep family roots and identity.


My sister includes our families in the book at the end.
This is the last page. I love the words she chose. This is a hallmark trait of my sister, she always knows just what to say…..

Gift #2: Mitch & Sarah: The Family Cookbook
So Mitch & Sarah put together a collection of their favorite recipes and wrote a little blurb about each one. They told about where the recipe came from, special notes about how to prepare it, or what to serve it with, and sometimes pictures of the food being prepared or served. The picture on the cover also captures a moment in time, because here Sarah is pregnant with their 3rd daughter.This is one my favorite pages — isn’t my niece so cute with batter all over her face in that chef’s hat??
I love thinking about this family that I love so much when I’m cooking for mine!

Gift #3: Our Gift: Personalized Subway Art (I told you I was into this Subway Art thing)




I bought some blank canvases at the craft store and painted them black and brown. My husband and I brainstormed words that describe each family and their history and life. I then used my Sillouette machine to cut out vinyl words for each canvas. I mailed one of them before I could take a picture, but here are the other two.


Part of the fun of homemade gifts is coming up with the idea. It usually takes weeks of brainstorming before I come up with something I’m excited about, and then I scurry around getting it done, but it is always worth it in the end! All of these gifts took a lot of time, but it is time well-spent and deeply appreciated by those on the receiving end!
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